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Sometimes I wonder if my family members see me as kind, or do they perceive me as harsh? This question forces us to confront a deeper truth that attitudes are not mere emotions. They are guiding principles that shape how we interact with others.
But a critical point is ,the distinction between inherited norms and consciously chosen principles. Many of us live by the habits and expectations passed down from family or society.
Our modern life has complicated this idea.Many of us have become numb. Indifferent to injustice or suffering until personal limits are crossed
If you really want to become good, then Prophet Muhammad ﷺ offers a critical model here. When someone asked Aisha (RA) about his character, she said: “His character was the Qur’an.” Meaning, he was a living example of the Qur’an in practice.
Aisha (RA) also said that the Prophet ﷺ never hit a servant, never raised his hand against a woman, and never took revenge for his personal hurt. The only time he acted was when the sanctities of Allah were violated, or in jihad in the way of Allah.
His way was that, between two actions, he would choose the easier one as long as it was not sinful. But when it came to sinful actions, he stayed very far away from them.
Hazrat Anas (RA) said: “I served the Prophet ﷺ for ten years. He never once said ‘uff’ to me. He never asked me why I did something, and never asked me why I didn’t do something.”
At the end of the day, it is your family, the people who see you the most, who can truly testify to your character. What do your own family members say about you?
Author:Arooj Fatima
