trust gap

Kya tum ney yeh bat apni amma ko batai he? Kabhi nahi, aur aap bhi waada karein ki nahi bataeen gye. Hussain 10 saal ka hai aur wo apne 15 saal ke cousin ko school ke larkoon ke baare mein bata raha hai ke pichle dino se wo kaise unke jaan ko aaye hain. Hussain kisi sorat apni maa ko is bary mein nahi batana chahta. Kyoun wo itni anxiety aur emotional flooding ko apne tk rakhna chahta hai. Wo apni maa ko bhi nahi madad ke leya kehna chahta. Hussain, key sath masla kya he?

1. Cortisol, bullying ke waqat bachy ka yeh stress hormone "fight, flight, or freeze" mode mein dal deta he. Zyada cortisol bachy ko anxious aur fearful bana deta he aur wo maa se share karny se ghabrata he.

2. Adrenaline. Bullying ke waqat adrenaline shoot hota hai, to heartbeat tez ho jati hai aur palms sweaty ho jati hain. Adrenaline ke rush se os ka system overload ho jata he, to wo khamosh rehny ko choose karta he

3. Oxytocin. Maa aur bachy ke darmeyan bonding aur trust pyda karny mein yeh hormone kam karta he. Maa agar har waqat overreaction dekhati he to oxytocin ka trust effect kam ho jata he. Esi condition mein bachay mein oxytocin aur dopamine decide karty hen ke wo maa pe trust kary ya nahi.

Bullying os ke emotions ko trigger karti he aur phir trust gap os ko apni maa ke sath share karny se rokta he. Is trust gap ki waja se bachy low self-esteem ka shikar ho jaty hein, jo in ki aany wali zindgi ko shadid motasir karty hein. Maa Bap ko in masail ke shidat ka andaza hona chaheye ke on ke konsi kami bachon ko tanha kr rahi he. kyoun museebat mein bachy sb se pehly on ke pas nahi aaye.

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